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and what not to buy!

Step 1: Read our Guide to Vibrators to gain a better understanding of vibrators in general.

Step 2: Decide what you and your wife want from a vibrator. Answer the following questions with yes or no, then see Step 3

  1. Is the vibrator meant to enhance her pleasure alone?
  2. Is it something you wish to use also?
  3. Is it something you want to watch her use?
Step 3: Answers!

If you answered yes to a:

Most women prefer a vibrator on the clitoris alone. Although contrary to everything most men were raised to believe, very few women need penetration in order to have an orgasm (although the combination can be quite nice too). For women, it's really all about external stimulation of the clitoris. Any type of egg or bullet vibrator will provide this. So you just need to decide which features you want (and can afford).

At the very least, the vibrator should be variable speed unless you already know your lady prefers major power. Other features include such things as various functions (i.e. escalating, pulsating, etc.), quality of the motor, noise, waterproof or not, etc. You'll want to visit our Clitoral Vibrators section.

If you answered yes to b:

If you want to be able to use the vibrator on yourself as well, you'll probably want to visit our Vibrator Kits section. The absolute top of the line (and our best-selling toy by far) is the Pulsatron Kit. Learn more about the Pulsatron here You may also want to check out our Vibrating Cock Rings section. These items typically give her clitoral stimulation while providing you with the enhancement of the cock ring. Some have dual vibrators which stimulate both her clitoris and your testicles.

If you answered yes to c:

If you want to watch her put on a show, you'll definitely want to visit our Rabbit-Type Vibrator section. This is the group of vibrators that have a phallic-like shaft with some sort of a clitoral stimulator attached usually in the shape of an animal. These vibrators have names like Rabbit Pearl, Rabbit Habit and many, many others. You'll want to read our Guide to Vibrators article as well as the product information on each vibrator in that section so you'll understand the difference between the best quality Japanese-made vibrators and the lesser Hong Kong models. They may look identical but they truly are not.

WHAT YOUR WIFE PROBABLY DOES NOT WANT!

All too often we see the following scenario in our brick and mortar store. A man comes into the store often with a buddy or two. They quickly find the toy section in the back of the store. One of our women sales staff tries to help them and they respond by saying something to the effect of "I bet you've tried everything back here, right?" Our sales woman attempts to respond politely through her clenched teeth. Eventually, he'll tell her that he wants something for his wife or girlfriend. She'll start to show him the various vibrators and explain what they do but inevitably he'll pick up a huge latex penis (we sell these because some people insist) and say "This is what she wants!"

Well, guys, we hate to blow your fantasies but the truth is that most women will take one look at one of those and want to run the other way. Oh she may pretend to go along with it if she thinks it will make you happy but for most women, that's just not what it's about. So, please, if you really care about your lady, put your fantasies away!